Lagos big boy and chairman of Baltidon group, Akeem Olayiwola atanda Abimbola remembers his late father, the late Alhaji Yunus Ajadi Abimbola Fehintola, five years after his passing. The event, held in Lagos, brought together family, friends, and well-wishers who gathered to honor the memory of a loving father and humanitarian. Throughout his life, Alhaji Yunus was known for his philanthropic efforts and dedication to helping others. According to him, “The passing of my dad left a void in my life that’s impossible to fill, but his memory is a constant source of light and guidance even during this time that I am being tested. However the most I can do is pray that my message reaches him in heaven. God knows how much I miss him and how much I dream that I can hug him one more time.” He further said,
“My father was a man of unparalleled integrity. He believed in doing the right thing, even when it was hard or unpopular. His honesty and strong moral compass were clear in everything he did, from his career to his relationships with family and friends.” He taught me that integrity isn’t just about honesty, it’s about being true to yourself and your beliefs.
Dad was a family man. His love for Mom was a beautiful example of partnership and commitment. My father was tough when it comes to discipline but as soft as cotton when it comes to my mother. They had a bond built on respect, understanding, and unwavering support. As a father, he was patient, kind, and always there for me when I needed him. He never missed a milestone and was always so proud of everything I accomplished.
Dad had a way of giving advice without making it sound like a lecture. His words were thoughtful and rooted in experience. Whether it was about dealing with life’s ups and downs or making important decisions, his advice was always spot on. He taught me to approach life with curiosity and an open mind, always ready to learn something new.
Those moments, he believed, were what truly made us happy and fulfilled.
He faced life’s challenges with courage and grace, never letting them define him. His ability to stay positive and hopeful, even in the face of adversity, was truly inspiring. He taught me that strength isn’t just about being physically strong, it’s about having emotional fortitude and the ability to keep going no matter what.
Even though Dad isn’t here physically anymore, his legacy lives on in the values he instilled in me. I strive to honor his memory by living a life of integrity, showing love and kindness to others, and finding joy in the simple things. His influence is woven into who I am, and I’m forever grateful for the time we shared.
As I reflect on Dad’s life, I can’t help but feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude. He wasn’t just an amazing father, he was an incredible human being. His love, wisdom, and strength continue to guide me, and his memory is a source of comfort and inspiration. Even though he’s gone, his spirit lives on in those he touched, and his legacy will always be a part of me.
