By Fidelis Duker
Growing up in Nigeria during the early 70s to 80s was an experience filled with nostalgia and fond memories. I was born in Lagos, though from Henshaw Town in Calabar, Cross River, and received my education in Lagos, Kano and Jos.
One of my fondest memories was when my father would either put me on a Lagos to Kano train or a bus service from Iddo in Lagos whenever he decided against buying me a Nigerian Airways ticket back to boarding school. Despite the long journey of approximately 24 hours, I never felt any fear, and my parents were confident in my safe arrival at school. This was a testament to the sense of security that existed in the Nigeria at that time.
In those days, it was common for my father to post pocket money in an envelope via the postal and telegraph service. The trust and efficiency of the system allowed for such transactions without any worry of the cash getting missing. The simplicity and reliability of the postal service were reflections of the Nigeria I knew back then.
I also remember a time when my classmates and I traveled together on our school bus. On one occasion, the bus broke down on a deserted road. However, our predicament was swiftly resolved when an unknown farmer kindly offered us refuge. Being students of the prestigious Federal Government College, we were treated with respect and received help from strangers. The unity among Nigerians was evident, as my state of origin never mattered to my classmates, and they never bothered to inquire about it. This camaraderie and acceptance fostered a sense of national unity and pride.
As Nigeria celebrates its 63 years of independence today, I fondly recall it as a country where education held great value. Attending one of the 21 prestigious universities was considered a noteworthy accomplishment. Universities such as the University of Ibadan, University of Nigeria Nsukka, University of Lagos, University of Ife, and Ahmadu Bello University were regarded as institutions of pride for young Nigerians. Pursuing an education abroad was not as esteemed as studying at these renowned institutions within the country. The admission process for unity schools, which encouraged diversity and inclusivity, was highly competitive, and parents aspired for their children to secure a spot in these institutions. Private schools were often frowned upon, as public schools were known for producing some of the brightest minds in the country.
However, as time went by, these nostalgic Nigerian experiences gradually diminished. The sense of security and trust, once synonymous with postal services, has significantly declined in recent years. The unity and camaraderie that existed among Nigerians seem to have gradually eroded, as tribalism and regional divisions have become more pronounced. Private schools have gained popularity, and admission into unity schools no longer holds the same level of significance.
As we reflect on the past and celebrate 63 years of independence, it is important to acknowledge the changes and challenges that Nigeria has faced. While some aspects of the country have shifted, it is crucial to remain hopeful and work towards restoring the sense of security, unity, and pride that once defined the Nigeria I grew up in. Only through collective efforts and a commitment to national unity can we revive those nostalgic Nigerian experiences that have seemingly become non-existent.
Happy 63rd Independence fellow Nigerians …….God bless 🇳🇬 Nigeria and Nigerians
*Fidelis Duker is a Filmmaker/Media Practitioner and writes from Calabar
